Do Nothing!
Of all the option that are available,
this is your cheapest.
Worrying about hair loss could be described
as the male equivalent of women worrying about their
breasts.
For some people the thinking is that when the hair
goes their self esteem goes with it, their self image
is shattered, so possibly is their sex life, without
hair many people think their first problem is sex, their
second problem is sex and their third problem is sex.
None of this need be so, it just requires you to have
a different outlook from the traditional ways that society
has convinced us to think.
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It is easy to understand why people go for all these
alterations to their appearance but at the same time
they may find once the changes have been made their
own self esteem hasn't changed any. The work they have
to do on themselves is inside rather than outside.
People are always more critical of themselves and never
see themselves as others actually see them. It may be
that a different hair style could make all the difference
in accepting hair loss. Talk to your hairdresser for
advice on what they could do for your hair.
The universal
rule in dealing with thinning hair is, less is more.
When in doubt cut, if the hair is kept shorter it can
actually be made to look fuller.
A skilled hairdresser or
can also help when hair is thinning in certain areas
only. For many the first sign of hair loss is thinning
at the temples, when the hairline is creeping back and
back. This can be minimised by trimming the hair short
at the front, while letting the hair at your temples
grow longer.
Although a receding hairline dealt with
properly, can give a certain degree of dignity, there's
not much glamour attached to a bald spot, that circular
shape at the crown.
Tactics here are to keep the back
short, long hair at the back of the head will be heavier,
pulling down and away from the crown and exposing the
balding area.
Avoid using gel as this tends to cause
the hair to stick together thus exposing bald patches
more easily. Washing your hair every day will also help
to make your hair look thicker.
One gentleman who used to wear a wig for years suddenly
decided to discard it. He suddenly feels free, people
accept him and hardly notice the difference. What they
do notice is the brightness in his eyes and his happiness
from being accepted for how he is.
Hair replacement is often about making yourself attractive
to the opposite sex but if you feel good about yourself
and are confident, that's the biggest turn on.
Whether
you do or do not have hair, whether your nose, ears
or any other part of your body is right or not doesn't
really matter.
As long as you feel good about yourself,
that is perhaps the most important thing.
It is hoped this web site has helped you look at your
hair loss in a new light and has given you ideas about
what can and cannot be done to resolve it.
Why not just accept hair loss for what it is and say
Proud to be Bald.